I don't usually connect between Facebook and this blog. They're two different places; only friends read what's on Facebook, whereas this blog is open. Both are places I sometimes have fun, or think out loud, or share concerns, jokes and much of the other exchanges that make this life interesting, frustrating and by and large, all things considered, when it comes down to it, bottom line wonderful.
This morning I posted this on Facebook:
It takes a lot of love, faith and courage to decide "I shall Not Hate", and to resist calls for revenge. This is the personal story of a Palestinian doctor who lost three daughters and a niece when the Israeli Defence Force targeted their house in the 2009 incursion into Gaza. A tank shell was fired through their bedroom window. "Hatred is an illness. It prevents healing and peace....we use hatred and blame to avoid the reality that eventually we need to come together." Elie Wiesel, Nobel Peace Prize Laureate and Holocaust survivor, describes the book as "a necessary lesson against hatred and revenge." Izzeldin Abuelaish is the founder of Daughters for Life Foundation which offers educational support for Middle Eastern women. The book tells the story of one Palestinian family's grief and the determination of a doctor to overcome hatred with love, violence with peace, and fear with the persuasion of truth told, and lived.
The post speaks for itself, but I wanted to think out loud a bit more about this remarkable man, and the tragic killing of his family.
I am tired of the rhetoric of blame and justification from the Israeli Defence Force and those who give the orders for military incursions into Gaza.
I refuse to ignore the prolonged siege and dehumanising humiliation of a people on the grounds of security as disguise for land appropriation.
I acknowledge the threat posed by Hamas, but also acknowledge the ludicrous imbalance of power and the disproportionate measures, military, legislatively and economically, taken against civilian people in the interests of this unchallenged idol of national security.
I am apalled at the policies of a Government of a country which came into being as a nation state to provide a home for homeless persecuted people, and now in turn practices institutional persecution of the Palestinian people.
And yet.
I have much to learn from Izzeldin Abbuelish, who near the end of his book, writes a list of the lessons he has learned in the tragedy of his children, and in converting that anguish into creative energy to build a better future. Here are five of those lessons that have deep echoes of the words of Another whose entire life was built on self-giving love, and who embodied that so humane defiance of unspeakable grievance, "I shall not hate":
- Hate is blindness and leads to irrational thinking and behaviour. It is a chronic, severe and destructive sickness.
- Anger is not the same as hate. Anger can be productive. Feel the anger, acknowledge it, but let it be accompanied by change. Let it propel you toward necessary action for and others.
- When your core values align with your heart, they become non-negotiable. If this is your guide you can make decisions with the utmost integrity.
- Peace is humanity; peace is respect; peace is open dialogue. Good ideas become great ones when shared with others.
- Trust children's opinions. They are most likely to speak the trruth, and far less likely to have a personal agenda.
May the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, the Lord who is One God, touch with mercy hearts that hate, and hearts that refuse to hate, and out of that history of anguish and broken dreams, build a new future.
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