Amy Dead!
So the stark announcement in one of the Sunday Papers. There is no shortage of reporting and comment about the "troubled singer", "wrestling with issues", "fighting her demons", and no shortage either of admiration verging on adulation, the kind of overblown sentiment that creates such pressure and unreality for celebrities. It's little wonder vulnerable human beings living in the self-induced laser light of public celebrity find life hard to live, hard to bear and inescapably terrifying. Surrounded by those for whom they are a business, living with the demands of popularity and rejection, listening to the verdicts of fans fickle and faithful, suffering chronic emotional overload, living the nightmare and always, but always being the centre of attention, the celebrity becomes product, the person becomes commodity, and a needy human being becomes marketable publicity so that the intense scrutiny and public humiliation reduce the human being to tabloid news item and vicarious sufferer.
So I reflect on what has happened to Amy Winehouse and as a Christian pray for her, and her family, and ask forgiveness for the kind of cultural cruelties that create, encourage and exploit human weakness mixed with talent. Amy Winehouse has been on a spiral downwards for a long time, and what I want to insist upon in all the sentimental and at times hypocritical regret now being expressed, is that this was a human being with real needs, a capacity to love and be loved, a self-destructive urgency in her lifestyle that was both choice and compulsion. Addiction to drugs and alcohol can sometimes be rooted in deeper addictions to fear, anxiety, inner lostness, and the search for love and acceptance.
As a Christian I want to insist on something else too. Somewhere in the frantic brokenness and raging talent and outrageous performances and violent episodes there is a human being made in the image of God. She too was woven and knit together in her mother's womb; she too is one who no matter where she went, perhaps all unknown to her, God was there - yes even in the hells she created or fell into. Made in God's image, yet marred and defaced, but the dignity, worth and value of each person made in the image of God is not erased beyond recovery. Whatever else Calvary means it means that; and whatever we make of the Love of God, and we make far too little of it in our theology, it is power and purpose harnessed to redemption in ways infinitely beyond our moral boundaries and grudging imaginations.
And as a Christian I look at her tragic struggles for freedom and dignity and ask, not in any trivially pious self-concerned moralism, but in genuine compassion, "What would Jesus do for, and say to, and think of, Amy Winehouse"? And you know, I find that an easy set of questions to answer. He would love her, and that love which understands crucifixion and suffering, and mockery and utter loneliness, will do what needs to be done, and say what needs to be heard, and think as Jesus always thought, that with us it is impossible, but with God all things are possible.
So what I am looking for in the reporting and the comment are four words that William Blake made into one of the most powerful poems of social compassion in our language. Read it, think of Amy, and think of the God who in Christ comes close to human hearts, and closest to human hearts that are breaking, or broken.
The Divine Image,
William Blake
To Mercy, Pity, Peace and Love
all pray in their distress;
And to these virtues of delight
Return their thankfulness.
For Mercy, Pity, Peace, and Love
Is God, our Father dear,
And Mercy, Pity, Peace, and Love
Is Man, his child and care.
For Mercy has a human heart,
Pity a human face,
And Love, the human form divine,
And Peace, the human dress.
Then every man, of every clime,
That prays in his distress,
Prays to the human form divine,
Love, Mercy, Pity, Peace.
And all must love the human form,
In heathen, Turk, or Jew;
Where Mercy, Love, and Pity dwell
There God is dwelling too.
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Rest in the Love, Mercy, Pity and Peace of God, Amy.
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